David and I were very close at one time – we became friends
originally as fellow members of the Hampstead Choral Society which I joined
within a week of coming to London for library school (North-Western
Polytechnic) in January 1967. I think it was at my second rehearsal that he
chatted to me, after which we did so many things together: outings (the
destination usually to include a cathedral and a second-hand bookshop), joining
the Elgar Society London Branch on its formation, joining the Southwark
Cathedral Choir. I remember a visit to Rochester where the discovery of a shop
with a large collection of 78s took precedence over Evensong in the cathedral –
one of the objects of the visit – which he missed and I attended alone.
David was best man at my first wedding. And, of course, it was
through David that I met Robert Tucker. (David was quite alarmed to discover
that everyone he met seemed to be a librarian!) I'm afraid that we eventually
drifted apart and I always felt guilty about it (Robert kept in touch with him),
but I felt I had outgrown the friendship, though we still exchanged Christmas
cards. I hope he made appropriate arrangements for the disposal of his
wonderful collection of recordings and other memorabilia, which could be
claimed as of national importance. I once met his brother, who was at St
Thomas’s Hospital when I visited David, who was a patient there in the 1970s.
Robert says that, despite his
infirmities, David sounded quite unchanged on the telephone, and I can imagine
his frustration at having his freedom curtailed so irrevocably. I could have
provided the stimulating conversation Andrew Neill says David craved – which makes
me feel even more guilty – but the trouble was that David didn’t want anything
to change, and was very put out when I (and I think Robert too) got married
and, of course, made changes to our lives. He wasn’t a misogynist or (so far as
I am aware) homosexual, but just felt that women were a bit of an irrelevance
in his life.
I loved his dry sense of humour,
though this could sometimes be hurtful or embarrassing: I remember we were in a
cafe near Southwark Cathedral, probably when we both sang in the Cathedral
choir, and a poor old down-and-out came up to him saying ‘Can you help me, sir?’
to which he replied, rather sharply: ‘No! No one can.’ I remember Ron Taylor
complaining that once when David visited him he started picking up and reading
letters that were lying around. There was one occasion when, on Christmas Day,
he missed the only bus to Southwark (when there were buses on
Christmas Day!) for the cathedral services (and presumably taxis were
completely booked up or unaffordable) and so, unexpectedly, had to spend the
day at home, probably lunching on beans on toast (lunch would have been
provided at Southwark, where the choir was also required for Evensong); on
hearing this I invited him to Kennington (where I then lived – by then I had
moved on from Southwark to St George’s Hanover Square) on Boxing Day for a
repeat Christmas lunch when he also had the challenge of entertaining my
mother, who had come from Nottingham for the occasion. As my best man (at St
George’s), he was a bundle of nerves and, the day before, had to be sent home
by my prospective mother-in-law to prevent him driving everyone mad! As I think
we said at the time, anyone would have thought that he was the
one getting married! Everything was fine on the day, but Janet did not help by
telling him (teasingly) that if the groom fails to turn up the best man has to
marry the bride!
He had a great love of names: in the
musical world Graupner (composer) and Bronsgeest (singer) amused him; it was
David who named Wulstan Atkins (with his utter devotion to Elgar) as ‘the
Thirteenth Apostle’ (also, ‘Woolsack’). Other Elgarians earned similar epithets
(no names no pack drill). We once visited (I think on a dull November day,
having travelled by train, including an excellent lunch on board – those were
the days! – and walking from Worcester to Lower Broadheath) the Elgar Birthplace,
met by Alan Webb and – sworn to secrecy – CAKE provided by Mrs Webb! And there
was that instantly recognizable cough that punctuated many a London Branch
talk. He was a great friend (and fellow Cornishman) of Bill Harris (William
Lewarne Harris), composer, whom I also got to know, the baritone Donald
Francke, and of course Inglis Gundry. We were also frequent visitors to William
Reeves, near him in south London, for second-hand books and music and I
remember hesitating to spend the then considerable sum of £3. 10s. on the two
volumes of Percy Scholes’s The Mirror of Music (I succumbed.
They sell for up to £90 the pair now!). I remember my first wife Janet
commenting on how his flat was surprisingly (for a bachelor!) comfortable and ‘chintzy’.
There was also the Block instrument, indicating ‘train on line’ when the
doorbell was rung. Did you ever notice that, though tall, he had very small
feet?
The Hampstead Choral Society often
sang in Promenade Concerts, usually as part of a vast composite choir: we sang
in the Beethoven Choral Symphony conducted by Boult in place
of Malcolm Sargent who was mortally ill. We thought how slow the scherzo was,
until we heard the broadcast repeat and realized it was spot-on, the more
particular pointing of the rhythm giving far more impetus than mere speed;
another year we sang in Belshazzar’s Feast (David loved the
alternative German title that then appeared in the vocal score: Belsazers Gastmahl!), conducted by John
Pritchard with a choir of thousands; so many in fact that we planned, when they
all shouted ‘Slain!’, to shout ‘Shit!’, but I can’t remember whether we did. David
later joined the London Philharmonic Choir.
He often played recordings down the
telephone when talking to me: I remember in particular the Eugene Goossens
recording of the 1920 revision of the Vaughan Williams London Symphony and comparing it with the published score. He
recalled, as a very young man, meeting Vaughan Williams (I think in Cornwall) and
discussing a piece for which not all instruments were available locally
(unfortunately I can’t now remember what the piece was) and RVW suggesting ‘You
could try saxophones’, of which there was no shortage in the dance bands of the
local seaside hotels at the time! David also recalled as a child witnessing the
Crystal Palace fire (1936), which could be seen from the road where they lived.
This has been mostly about music, but
David's interest in railways was significant too (I think he was in ‘planning’
at Waterloo when I first knew him) and he relished a recording of steam
locomotives tackling the Lickey Incline. He was also a Territorial and, in our
early days, was occasionally called for periodic training sessions; I think he
may have been awarded the TD (Territorial Decoration).
As for the pronunciation of his name,
it was definitely ‘Mitchell’, despite the actor Keith Michell pronouncing it
‘Meeshell’. I remember Robert Tong
ringing me up about a concert at Queen Mary College that he was conducting and
in which David was interested and Tong asking if my friend Michelle was coming
– my first reaction was that I didn’t know any girl called Michelle!
Finally, as David tended to collect
friends who were younger than himself, I always used to refer to him,
teasingly, but quite truthfully, as ‘my oldest friend in London in both senses
of the word’. (Actually John Bishop and Betty Roe probably also qualified but
it was a pity to spoil the joke!) David was quite sensitive about his age
(compared with us) though he would only have been in his 30s/40s at the time.
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